I was digging through some ‘stuff’, and came across some notes I had taken from Leadership Training we had on Saturday 11th June 2005. I have re-typed them because they are still very relevant today:-
What is the purpose of Primary?
- “Suffer the children to come unto me”. To teach the children about the Gospel.
- Parents have the primary responsibility to teach their children.
- To strengthen families.
How does Primary strengthen families?
This question was put to Priesthood leaders (members of the Bishopric in attendance) – “What do you hope to happen?
- YM to prepare to receive the Priesthood and go on missions
- To build testimonies
- To reinforce the Gospel being taught in the home
- To receive an appreciation for good music
- To lead toward the Temple
- To be good fathers and good leaders
Elder Ballard gave a talk about raising the bar. Does that apply in Primary? It starts at home. We raise the bar ourselves in terms of preparation etc.
We have the opportunity to teach the children to prepare for the two most important covenants: Baptismal and Temple covenants. The children are capable and anxious to learn about the Gospel.
As you lead and guide the Primaries, what problems do you need to solve?
- We need good teaching
- Managing appropriate behaviour and respect
- Motivating teachers to be prepared (and show up)
- Helping the children feel the spirit.
Define what the foundation for Primary is:
- Support of Priesthood leaders – work well with them
- When we are staffed
- Having people, quality people, in Primary
- We need to love the children
- Encourage children to read the scriptures
We need to mentor children to need to see a functional family. We give children the hope that that’s what they can have. The Primary Board received a lot of feedback (a lot of negative) about last years’ theme, as a lot of Primary children come from broken homes, but we want to give them hope that they can have a forever family of their own, even if they don’t necessarily come from one.
How do we work together? We all want the same vision. We need to help each other achieve the vision (Primary Presidencies and Bishoprics). There are several places we go to receive counselling:-
- From Heavenly Father when called and set apart, and when we pray
- From the Church Handbook
- Scripture Study
- Ward/Stake Council
- Visiting/Home teachers can help with inactives
- Primary Presidencies
- Ward Mission Leaders
- Youth leaders (for upcoming youth still in Primary
BUDDY BEES- activation program for less actives – ‘borrowed’ from a Ward in Queensland. It was on their noticeboard. I hope they haven’t missed it yet! (tee hee)
This was their plan:-
– Invite the less actives to activities
– Teacher to visit and befriend
– Welcome the child/children in Primary
– Choose a less active child in class (for teachers to do)
Correlate with other Auxiliaries.
Counsel with Priesthood Brethren – The Primary Bishopric member should be invited every now and then to attend a primary meeting.
Meet. Think. Get solutions. Write them down and say “Brother…we have thought of solutions. Would you review and provide counsel and get back to us?” Instead of bombarding Priesthood leaders with problems, we need to be prepared.
Building faith and spiritual self-reliance.
Priesthood focus: How can we build faith in our children?
We need to share our successes with our Priesthood leaders. Let them know we support them and we are having successes.
Having Primaries well staffed and having teachers well prepared.
(Priesthood brethren who extend the call to serve are asked to stand) What is involved?
- Expectations of what’s involved in the calling
- Who are they going to report to
- Reliability to attend classes and form a bond with the children
- Give them tools/materials
- What it takes – being committed
- Let them know how important the calling is.
- Give them the Primary vision
This makes all the difference. Express appreciation to accept the call. Don’t make assumptions of the person’s circumstances.
Who should be called?
- The person Heavenly Father wants
- The best
- Primary can be a good place to start. Children are very loving. We need good mentors as well.
- Remember some people can be mentored (re-activated members) but also remember to stick with the manual and Primary provided materials so only the correct doctrine is being taught.
Consistency to the children is important. They need to have the same teacher for a full year. It takes a while for the teacher to gain the student’s trust.
We need an adequately staffed Primary. Let the teacher stay long enough.
We need to change the perception of serving in Primary – we’re not being ‘left’ in Primary (like a dark hole).
We need to ensure our own spiritual nourishment. It is part of every one’s callings.
Fellowshipping and sustaining our Primary. it can be possible to feel neglected because sisters need sisters (and the need to feel like “belonging” in Relief Society)
We watched a video of a Primary Orientation.
- Build and give vision in the Primary orientation (with a new teacher)
- Define system of support
- The presidency member was prepared with a class list, materials, calendar
- The Presidency member shared the Primary vision
- Reinforce that the calling came from Heavenly Father
- Support and encourage the Primary teacher
- Express confidence in the teacher and acknowledge you are praying for the teacher
Use the materials provided by the church. Use visuals, music and testimony.
- Talk about the things to listen for
- Use pitch leading when trying to teach a melody. Children can pitch lead too.
- Visual signals/actions
- Use “listen for this”
- Understand what the words are saying
- Memorise the music
- Get the words and music into the hearts and minds of the children
- Invite the children to listen
- How and when can you tech this to your teachers and music personnel
- Sharing Time – model teaching skills
- All of us are teachers, all the time!
Activity Days/Faith in God Program
- Primary Presidency and Faith in God leaders gives the books to the children
- A time when the children meet with their parents and leaders -twice a year at an activity for the Faith in God program
- The most important reward is a testimony – the process of living the Gospel
- Priesthood Preview – explain to the YM the purpose of the Priesthood
- Bishop is in charge of the Priesthood Preview. Primary leaders can assist.
- The child is the person responsible for tracking his progress however it is of minimal importance overall. They will however learn accountability, responsibility and they need to learn these skills if they can.
- There are two activities in each section
- Ideas for activities come from Teaching – No Greater Call, The Friend Magazine, the children invite a mother or father to come, the Internet…
- There are five extra activities for the 11 year old boys and girls.
There will never be another time when we have stewardship over an open heart.
The Saviour is welcoming the children in to his open arms.
Bring the children to Christ as we work together and prepare ourselves so we can teach with the spirit.
Primary children remember three things: the music, that their teacher loved them (even if they don’t remember their teacher’s name) and if they have felt the spirit.
We will not know the extent of our influence. We have a profound opportunity to teach and strengthen.